Last Updated on February 8, 2025 by Wishbonix
Relationships are precious yet fragile bonds, shaped by love, trust, and shared moments. When a relationship falters, it feels like the ground beneath us crumbles. The heartbreak is complex—a mix of regret, confusion, and longing for what might still be possible. Sometimes, the cause of the breakup seems insignificant in hindsight, leaving us wondering if things could truly mend. This is where the Spell to Heal a Broken Relationship offers hope.
This spell taps into the energy of rekindling and reconciliation, encouraging the release of negativity and the renewal of connection. Whether you’ve been yearning for a second chance with someone you love or wish to heal the scars of past misunderstandings, this ritual serves as a bridge—a way to begin anew. It’s not about forcing love but about clearing barriers so affection and understanding can flow freely once again. If you believe there’s still something worth fighting for, this love spell can be the catalyst to revive and transform your bond.
Ingredients for the Spell to Heal a Broken Relationship
To perform this love spell, you’ll need simple, symbolic items that represent love, connection, and sweetness. Gather the following materials:
- A piece of paper – For inscribing your intentions and connecting energies.
- Pink ribbon – Symbolizing harmony and unconditional love.
- Red pen – Representing passion and the power of desire.
- Small jar – A container to hold your wish and focus its energy.
- Liquid honey – To sweeten emotions and foster positive feelings.
- White candle (optional)
Step-by-Step Instructions for Casting the Spell
This spell is best cast during a waxing moon phase (when the moon grows from New to Full), as this is a time for growth, renewal, and attracting positive outcomes. Follow these steps carefully to ensure the best results.
Step 1: Prepare Your Mind and Space
Before you begin, take a moment to center yourself. Sit in a quiet, comfortable space where you won’t be interrupted, and ensure it’s clean and peaceful. Light a candle or play soothing music if this helps you focus. Close your eyes and take deep breaths, imagining all negativity around you dissolving. Focus on the love and hope you wish to rebuild.
Step 2: Write Your Names on the Paper
Take the piece of paper and your red pen. Write your name and your partner’s name side by side. Be sure to write neatly and with intention, as this action symbolizes your desire to bring the two of you together again.
Step 3: Fold the Paper
Carefully fold the paper so that your names face each other. This physical act represents the desire for closeness and reconciliation. Visualize the connection between you strengthening with every fold.
Step 4: Tie the Paper with the Pink Ribbon
Take the pink ribbon and gently tie it around the folded paper. As you tie the knot, say these words (or your own heartfelt variation) aloud or in your mind:
With this ribbon, I bind our hearts in harmony. May love and understanding replace resentment, and may we find our way back to each other. So mote it be.
Feel the energy of love and tenderness flowing as you secure the ribbon.
Step 5: Place the Paper in the Jar
Take the ribbon-bound paper and place it inside the small jar. Slowly pour liquid honey over it, ensuring the paper is fully submerged. While pouring, imagine the honey sweetening every interaction and emotion between you and your partner. Visualize love and positivity filling the space between you.
Step 6: Hide the Jar
Seal the jar tightly and find a safe, dark place to hide it. The spell’s potency relies on the jar remaining unseen by anyone else. Treat this as your sacred secret—something that exists only between you and the universe.
Step 7: Release the Spell When Fulfilled
Once your wish is fulfilled—whether through rekindled romance, reconciliation, or emotional healing—it’s important to release the spell back to nature. Take the jar, gently open it, and dispose of its contents in a natural space, such as a river, ocean, or garden. This act signifies gratitude and closure while letting the universe move forward freely.
Tips for Success
To ensure your Spell to Heal a Broken Relationship works effectively, keep the following advice in mind:
Focus on Genuine Intention
This spell is not about manipulating someone’s free will. Its power lies in honest intentions. It’s a way to clear misunderstandings and release negativity, opening a path for both parties to make their own heartfelt decisions. Approach it with love, not desperation or control.
Timing Matters
Casting the spell during the waxing moon amplifies its energy. Consult a lunar calendar to choose the right phase, as this alignment mirrors the growth you’re trying to nurture.
Patience is Key
Results won’t happen overnight. This spell is a powerful nudge to the universe to help things align. Give it time and trust that the energy you’ve released will work at the right moment.
Combine with Real Actions
While magic can open doors, you must support it with real-world efforts. Communicate openly, practice empathy, and show your partner that you’re committed to change. Relationships thrive when both emotional and spiritual efforts align.
Keep Your Energy Positive
Avoid dwelling on doubts or negativity after performing the ritual. Instead, focus on fostering love and positivity in your everyday actions and thoughts. Keep visualizing the successful resolution you hope for.
Respect the Outcome
Sometimes, the spell may guide both parties toward healing, but not necessarily reconciliation. Trust that whatever outcome arises is for the greater good, even if it doesn’t align with your initial expectations.
Why This Spell Works
The Spell to Heal a Broken Relationship taps into the universal energy of connection, using time-honored symbols (like honey and ribbons) to align intentions, emotions, and the cosmos. Honey’s sweetness neutralizes bitterness, while the folded paper and ribbon embody unity. By hiding the jar, you nurture the seed of hope privately, giving it room to grow undisturbed.
Love spells like this one are not about force or shortcuts—they’re about opening hearts. This spell reminds us that love and reconciliation are possible when we approach challenges with care, patience, and respect. When performed with sincerity, the energy you pour into this ritual can ripple outward, creating harmony not just between you and your partner, but within yourself.
Take this opportunity to rebuild what’s broken, strengthen the bond you share, and start a new chapter filled with hope and understanding. Magic, after all, is just an extension of the love and intention you carry in your heart. Trust in it, and trust in yourself.
This one can bring unbelievably good results. I tried out a number of love spell types. First I tried the Wiccan love spell and followed up with an attraction spell. The rituals in both cases may be weird but have traces of modern approaches. I am amazed by the available spells and opportunities on your website. Other types I will try next include Voodoo and Santeria, I want to learn the rules of each spell I intend to cast. I am really glad I found your site.
Thank you for your kind words. We are glad our rituals worked for you. Best of luck for the additional spells.
What should be done with the jar after wish fulfillment?
Once your wish has been fulfilled return the jar to nature.
I really hope this works, I have faith it will. Anything I could do?
Make sure to think positive after you cast the spell, this is about the best thing you can do while the energies of the spell manifest.
does it necessarily have to be a glass jar or can i use a plastic container ? and should i have to close it with a lid or does it not matter?
sorry i should’ve commented on the first post i made. Do i have to completely fill up the container with honey or just enough to cover the paper?
Glass is certainly better, but if you only have plastic then use plastic. Yes, definitely a lid, you don’t want anything harmful or counterproductive entering the jar.
Can you use a red color pencil if u have no red pen at the moment or no
Yes
What kind of ribbon
Any pink ribbon will do.
I’ve casted a different spell on my ex. It did work. However, we had another kind of argument which made him go away from me. The said spell was just done few weeks ago. Can I go ahead and cast this spell within this month as well?
Yes, you can cast this spell as well. The spells will work independently from each each other and won’t influence or alter each other. Best of luck to you and your situation.
What was it I want to do it
If I did the spell but went looking for my ex and was not supposed to. Do I have to cast it again?
No, if you have cast the spell the heal a broken relationship you do not have to cast it again. At any rate, make sure not to annoy your ex. It’s always advisable to give the ex some space.
ok thank you…
I’d like to try this spell, but how long should I keep the jar hidden?
I am wondering the same thing
You should keep the jar hidden until you have received your full results and the relationship has been healed. After that, return the jar to nature.
What do you mean by “return the jar to nature”?
Does it matter if it’s not an actual ex but someone you were just involved with?
No, it does not matter. You can also use this spell on someone you were just involved with. It will be equally effective.
Are you also interested in a love spell to fix a broken relationship? I’ve done a lot of research on spells with the last couple of weeks and I came to the conclusion that this is the spell I want to use. I am already preparing everything. The emotion of love is perhaps the only emotion that separates human beings from the other living beings on this Earth. A healthy relationship can either make our life happy or take away all our happiness. However, what I have learned is that these spells to fix a relationship should certainly be derived from white magic sources, like this one here, or similar ones that can be found in Wicca, Santeria, or Obeah. You should always remember that no evil can ever breed something good. Good luck to all of you. I will let you know how it goes
I have not casted this spell just yet. Would adding more ingredients to the jar enhance this spell? Such as his hair, maybe a small rose quartz? I also have paper he has touched… would this be suggested to use?
Yes, you certainly may! This will definitely enhance the spell.
This is a very effective spell 🙂 I casted it and in just 1 week I have seen some improvement in my relationship with my ex. He did verbally told me that he was thinking of getting back in relationship with me. The only sad part is that he only shows his love for me whenever he’s drunk or possibly at times that he doesn’t have a full control of his own will. Is there any way that I can break his own will? Or should I wait a little longer?
Give him some more time, Mark. Within one week the energies have not fully manifested yet. Things should further improve and in the end your relationship should be fixed. In my opinion it’s to early to cast a spell that will break his will or force him to love you. At any rate, should that time come, we also have a spell to force someone to love you on our website.
While waiting for the spell to fully manifest, a major problem occurred which made my ex hate me and doesn’t want to see me again. Do you think it would be best to recast the spell now?
In that case why not cast a Forgiveness Spell first and then cast the spell to heal a broken relationship next? That’s how I would do it.
I accidently used a black ink in writing, what should I do? Is it okay?
The spell may be weaker because the energies that the red ink contains are missing. You can either do it again or put the jar in front of a red candle, meditate your wishes, and let the candle burn out completely, to compensate for the missing energies that are highly beneficial to heal a broken relationship.
I was able to get all the needed ingredients and i was able to follow the instructiona correctly. However, 2 days after i casted this spell, i accidentally made a mistake which cause him to be mad at me.. Should i cast this spell again or just simply wait?
thanks i really appreciate it
My last boyfriend just recently broke up with me for no reason. I’m really hoping this spell will work for us.
Did it work?
Could the spell be more effective if I put items like rose quartz, rose petals, and a small item he gave me in the jar?
Yes, definitely, please add it to the jar.
Hey I have a question dose it have to be ribbon, or can it be a string like from a shirt?
Does it necessarily have to be a pink ribbon could it be like a piece of pink thread?
It could also be a pink thread, this is no problem.
Did all of you cast this spell during the new moon to full moon phase? Can I do it any night? Please advise from those who have successfully cast this spell. Any more pointers that make this spell effective when you cast it?
Did you wait until the new moon ?
Can I cast this spell and a return of your ex at the same time? Currently he’s fighting with me over nonsense. I don’t know if both is an over kill?
Yes, you may cast the spell to return your ex at the same time, or after one full moon cycle.
I tried this as soon as my boyfriend broke up with me due to pressure from his parents. I still have the honey jar well hidden. But things didn’t work out well. It kept getting worse and came to the point where he doesn’t even look at me when he sees me and completely avoids me.
Keep the jar hidden, and continue to think positive. Things should get better again soon. There must be a spiritual reason for this to go this way, but it’s important to keep a positive outlook and allow the magic to go through its motion. The spell will heal the relationship, not destroy it. Always keep that in mind!
I can’t believe how this worked I’m amazed just one week and she was again with me while I lost all my hope but my faith was strong on this spell. Thanks a world for bringing joy in our life again
How did you do it? I have been waiting for more than two weeks now and still nothing. Do I need to cast it again? Please help me.
I did exactly the same thing that is written and while I was doing it I kept my faith very strong, like 100% sure she will be back and we will be together, and it happened. Beside this I tried the forgiveness spell which is pink and blue candles with lily of the valley oil… keep your faith, do it again, write the names in two languages as I did maybe that is more effective.
Me and my bae love each other a lot, we want to live our life with each other. But her parents they want to separate us, they threaten her, so she has been afraid of these threats from her family. I want her to show some guts and come with me, I will make it to another country if she is willing to come with me, and I’m wiling to do anything to be with her. This is my situation, can you please help me?
When you fill the jar with honey for the broken relationship spell, Do you fill it all the way? Half way?
Also, Can putting in a small picture of me and my boyfriend make the broken relationship spell work more?
Thank you. I really hope this will work for me.
I’ve been trying everything just to save my relationship to my partner. But still he keeps pushing me away. But now i end up to the point that i need to do this… I have faith in this… I hope it will work for us.
You have not said what jar? Is it plastic or glass jar?
Rinky, plastic is usually referred to as a “Plastic Container” jar on the other hand is known as GLASS. Don’t overthink the spell.
Since I did this, I found out my bf was cheating and the girl came forward, and he is just being an asshole. I guess it doesn’t work on relationships that are closer to ending?
I don’t feel that my spell is working he hasn’t come around and its been 1 month what should I do????? can I recast the jar and honey spell? with his picture and in 2 languages would this make a difference??? someone help
sorry sometimes I feel the same way but because he’s cheating that doesn’t mean he does not love you. Men can be stupid at times and have to proof themselves by lying and cheating, which means they are insecure, but not of you of themselves so if you still want him just keep trying and this time do it when all your feelings are with you. That moment when you cry and you really want him back that’s the time to cast the spell. If you don’t want him then don’t do it. Good luck
How long does this normally take to work? I wasnt able to completely cover the jar with honey. I also don’t have experience with Magick and I have a hard time ‘making energy’. I made a terrible mistake by neglecting my love and letting my depression take over my life, he won’t give me a chance to prove myself.
Omg same thing happend to me.. I was neglecting him, took his love for granted and was acting very bad towards him due to a major change in my life (work wise) which led me to depression and insecurity. I have changed completely now, I’m not anymore that horrible person, but the wounds I caused him are too deep. He had expressed his fear that I will turn crazy again if he starts being the same person he was with me, so he keeps me in a distance.. I need a chance to prove him that I’m not that person anymore, that he can trust me and that I won’t take his love for granted again. That people can change if they really want to. I used to be a witch when I was younger, and I must say the resaults were always what I expected. I have the knowledge to make my own love spell (the spells you make yourself are always stronger since they et your own energy 100%) but I’m here to get some ideas because Its been quite some time since the last time I tried to do so.
So this has worked for you?
Can I use a glass jar where I kept jasmine oil ? I am not getting a new glass jar 😢
Why not, just make sure it’s cleaned properly before you re-use it for the spell.
Where can I hide this? Can it be buried?
Probably, but I would make sure that the lid is closed tightly and that no water can enter the jar.
hi! can i use a thread instead of a ribbon? and can i add some herbs too?
Sure, as long as they are love related herbs and have properties that are in compliance with your goals you could basically add them all.
Hi Wishbonix I think the spells are awesome, however I still haven’t seen results is there anything else I could do? can I recast the spell with the jar and honey?? I have things that he touched and his picture as well can I re-do the spell but this time with all this items, Please please answer me its really important for me! thank you
How long has it been? If it has not been 3-4 months you should definitely wait it out. Keep in mind spells in general may take up to 3-12 months to fully work. The more you worry, the more signals you may send to the universe that you don’t fully want it to work. I wouldn’t recast if I were you.
How do you build up the magical energy?
Tried this spell last night and when I got up this morning my hubby’s clock was lying on the kitchen floor… it hangs above a door in the hallway. Is there something wrong?
Ive done this while travelling. Jar is hidden no one has seen it. But am I allowed to move the jar?
Hey, if I put a picture of us in the jar would that make it stronger?
Hi I personally wanted to thank u 😍. Actually after this things are healing and imroving step by step .
I will hide it, but what if my mom is taking me to get the products at the store and she knows about it will it work? As long as she doesn’t find it, right?
Will adding a picture of the couple folded and facing each other also strenghten the spell?
Hello Wishbonix, First of all thank you for your website. Glad I found this site. I just confirm again, only my name I write on the paper not my partner name at all? Thank you so much for your time. God bless you always
Hi Mesh, You have to write both names on the paper. Your name and the partner’s name as explained in the instructions. Best of luck!
Can adding a picture of both of us make the spell stronger?
Hi Wishbonix, I am so happy to have found your site. As a first timer, I am very nervous. How are you suppose to know it is working? Do I reach out to him first or wait for him?
hi wishbonix,
i have done this spell before 15-20 days, how long will it take to show results? he is ignoring me like i’m nothing in his life, which other spell can I do with this to fast up the result…. please guide
With this spell, it says to put the jar in a dark place. Does that mean in the house or can I bury it outside of the house?
Also if by chance the jar was seen, can the spell be recast at a later point in time?
Hi Wishbonix, I think there is a curse in our family, my husband ran away and married another lady 25 years ago, since then i am living alone. Now i am trying to find a life partner to have a life long happy relationship, as i am not that beautiful. Is there anything you can sugesst me to do?
Hello,
I was wondering, when you say that we have to hide the jar in a dark place and it can never be exposed, what if the relationship is fixed? Should i still keep on hiding it? How long should I hide it for?
If it was exposed, must I recast the spell again?
Will adding a photo help? I seen in the comments that if you add a personal item of theirs it will help (hair or something). Also how full does this jar need to be with honey? I assume the paper with the names needs to be covered. Also can I use any type of red writing device? (Crayon color pencil regular marker?)
Hello, can I add a piece of his hair to the jar?
I missed the new moon by a day is it still okay to cast this spell ?
Hi Wishbonix, I did this spell yesterday and I added heat (fire) to it. Will that affect the spell in a bad way? Did I mess up? Also can I do the spell again if I messed it up?